Visiting a specific person at his grave is recommended.

That is, the basic principle is that visiting graves is recommended, this is the principle.

The Prophet ﷺ says: I had forbidden you from visiting graves, but now visit them.

So visiting graves in itself is recommended, and the Prophet ﷺ says: Increase in remembering the destroyer.

Of pleasures, death, and the thing that reminds most of death is visiting.

Graves, so it is recommended for a person to visit graves.

As for visiting a specific grave, like the grave of a brother, sister, mother, father, or friend.

Or something similar, it is also recommended for a person to visit their graves and make du'a for them.

And to reflect on his own state if he were to become like them, and so on.

The Prophet ﷺ saw a woman who visited the grave of her son.

He saw her in a state of distress and crying.

So the Prophet ﷺ said to her: Have sabr.

Servant of Allah, he did not forbid her from visiting the grave, but what did he forbid her from?

From the distress that happened to her, and Aisha bint Abi Bakr, when she did not witness the death of her brother Abdurrahman.

And he said: He was buried, she went to him and visited.

His grave. Visiting the grave of the Prophet ﷺ in particular is recommended. A person comes to visit the grave of the Prophet, but he does not travel specifically for it. Rather, he travels for the mosque, or he is already in Medina and visits the grave.

of the Prophet ﷺ. The Prophet was keen to visit the people of Baqi'.

He used to be keen to visit their graves. The point is that visiting graves is recommended, especially if the person in the grave is a father, brother, mother, daughter, sister, and so on. It is recommended to visit them.

But the prescribed visit.

It is that he comes to the grave, of course, he greets all when he enters the cemetery.

Then he comes to the grave he wants to visit, faces the qibla; if it is a man, he stands at his head, if it is a woman, he stands at her middle.

Then he makes du'a for him, asking Allah to forgive him, have mercy on him, pardon him, raise his rank, and similar good supplications.

Make du'a for him, then leave; there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Absolutely, go ahead.