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When a calamity happens, a person says: "Oh my father" or "Oh my mother," this is ignorance. He asks: Is this shirk?
If he is calling upon them.
Instead of Allah the Blessed and Exalted, and they are absent or deceased or such, then it is shirk.
But if he just says it as a phrase, something meaningless, not intending to call upon them, this is ignorance.
But at the time of calamity, he should call upon Allah the Blessed and Exalted to remove it from him.