He says: Is it also written that so-and-so will marry so-and-so, for example?

Or is it something else, and will it definitely happen to him, or does a person have a choice in choosing the woman he likes and leaving the other? For example, he says: I was forced.

My father forced me to marry my cousin without my choice, but after living together I found her to be one of the best women.

The qualities that are sought in a woman, and my dislike turned into great love, and now I regret every time I remember how I used to dislike her.

Did Allah, the Exalted, write for me that I would marry her, feel this dislike, and then love her?

I say that everything that happens in the universe is written.

Maybe we mentioned this at the beginning. Yes.

And the change of a situation from one state to another is also written.

And the fact that he will marry this woman and not that one is also written.

And we see that some people are firmly determined to do a certain action.

Then after that, his determination fades from within himself.

Or his determination changes because of someone's advice.

Or he remains determined, but something prevents him from it due to obstacles that are not.

Under his control, so such a person.

This thing he intended to do was not decreed for him.

So it is not permissible for them, and sometimes.

A person is sinful for abandoning something.

Then suddenly, without realizing, it pours down.

His will becomes firm to do it, and it becomes easy for him to achieve it.

Either from himself, or by consulting someone else.

And by seeing things that call him to attain this determination.

This is very clear, even a person sometimes,

leaves his house intending to visit a specific person.

On the way, he remembers something else that is more important, so he turns from the first intention to the second.

Or on the way, he changes his intention or his determination weakens.

His resolve to go to this man fades, and he turns back.

Without any flaw, all of this shows.

That everything is written with Allah, the Mighty and Majestic.

That is why it was said to a Bedouin: How did you know your Lord?

How did you know your Lord, meaning by what thing?

I recognized Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, by any sign.

You use them as evidence, by Allah. He said: by the breaking of determination and the turning of intentions.

It means that a person may make a firm resolve.

Then he does not commit zina except that his resolve is broken.

For no reason, and his concern and interest in the matter disappears.

Then suddenly he finds himself being asked about this matter.

The important thing is that you must know.

Everything that happens is written with Allah exactly as it happens.

It does not come earlier or later, nor does it increase or decrease.

Allah the Exalted said: Everything with Him is by measure.

Everything with Allah the Exalted is by measure, even

The drops of rain are written and measured by Allah the Exalted.

There is nothing except that it happens according to the decree of Allah, the Exalted.

We believe in Allah.