Let's look at the messages for this episode. A message has reached the program from one of the sisters listening from Ras Tanura.
She says: I would like my following question to be presented to His Eminence Sheikh Abdul Aziz bin Abdullah bin Baz, may Allah preserve him. She says in her message, which is a bit lengthy.
I have been married to a man for twenty-six years.
And I had two sons and four daughters with him.
We spent ten years together in the best way.
After that, I started to notice a change in my husband's eyes.
This made me afraid of it, and I hate this sight and cannot stand it.
And when he enters the house, I see as if there is fire in his eyes.
This makes me unable to listen to him, walk with him, or sit with him because of the fear I feel when I see him.
Because he is in an unnatural state, as I see with my own eyes.
My brother took me to Jeddah to get treated there, fearing that I might be ill, but I am not ill.
I have gone to my family four times because of this, and they keep sending me back to him.
After that, I took one of the girls and went to Riyadh.
I rented a house and lived in it, then my family came and took me back to my husband's house in the Eastern Province.
I was also accused of having lost my memory, but praise be to Allah, there is nothing wrong with me. My brother said I have schizophrenia and that I am insane.
So I hope for your noble character.
Please advise me on how I should act so I can return to my married life as before. May Allah reward you with goodness.
In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate. Praise be to Allah.
And may Allah send prayers and peace upon the Messenger of Allah, his family, his Companions, and those who follow his guidance. To proceed.
What I see is ignorance in this matter, and the situation is as it is.
You should seek someone whom you think has experience with this psychological illness that has happened to you, perhaps he will find
a solution for this. This is a psychological illness.
It should be presented to doctors who treat psychological illnesses. No, there is no such thing as psychological treatment.
And whoever does not deal with this in such a way.
Taking care of the Noble Qur'an, the soul is in His hand, that is sleep.
He used to. in his hands before sleeping, recite "Say: He is Allah, the One" and the two protectors three times before sleeping.
And you wipe with that over what you can reach of your face, over the head and the face.
This is what was presented for Paradise.
The Prophet ﷺ used to do this when he complained of something ﷺ.
Yes, seeking refuge in the perfect words of Allah from the evil of what He created, morning and evening, three times.
And also, in the name of Allah, with whose name nothing on earth or in the sky can cause harm.
And he would recite it three times in the morning and evening.
And without a doubt, at bedtime, all of this is among its causes.
And likewise, reciting al-Fatiha in every prayer.
After every prayer.
And repeating the three sooras after Maghrib and Fajr three times.
All of this is part of the treatment for this illness, inshaAllah, because there might be something.
The specific thing, and you should be careful of bad actions.
The earth is your opponent, you and your wife; the point is that there might be some action.
Change the appearance of your face in your own view.
And in his encounter with him, from some of what was done.
The guides or the evil eye, meaning what they call the gaze, it could be this, it could be that.
And if you act mechanically, even with much reading and reflection, the actions.
We wish you recovery, and if you present what is in yourself to some. people.
Men or women, it is a matter of reality, maybe they have some stubbornness.
We ask Allah to grant you recovery and well-being. As for disputes and conflicts, this is for the court, but there is a dispute.
This is with us.
May Allah reward you with goodness. It seems that the dispute or disagreement is because of this. Apparently, what is better is a change in her view.
This could be the case.
In reality, there is nothing in. only, and Allah knows best.
Let's assume the husband is listening to us now, is there any advice for the husband and the wife in this recent situation?
We advise Dawud to take care of her, using good manners, kind words, and appropriate communication.
And du'a, everyone who hopes in Allah wants what happened, she should ask her Lord that Allah heals her from what has afflicted her.
And likewise, he should ask Allah to heal him from what happened, and to heal her from what happened.
We ask our Lord, Allah, to guide him, if there is something.
And her Lord also removes it for her, that Allah heals her and grants her well-being from what has afflicted her.
Du'a is the weapon of the believer, and Allah says: Call upon Me, I will answer you.
So we advise everyone to ask Allah for well-being and healing from what has happened, and that Allah restores the situation to its original and better state, and He is capable of all things, the Exalted.
I heard that sometimes the sick person may not be able to treat himself well. Do you advise that someone recite over her or prescribe some suitable remedies for her?
No, she recites, but it should be recited over her; her husband can recite over her, or her brother, or her father, or a righteous woman can recite and blow over her, okay.