Abu Muhammad from Britain, in fact, called his wife and she did not answer, so he got angry and said: If you disconnect the phone, disconnect the sound, or you close it.

Then you are divorced, divorced, divorced. Now, a whole year has passed and she has not done this, but they are living in hardship.

What is your advice now? We say regarding this issue, as for those who are careless and attach divorce to emotional things or situations and the like, this is not appropriate.

It is not appropriate because he does not treat the sharia as one of the laws of Allah, or a limit set by Allah, or one of His rulings.

It becomes subject to a person's whims and emotions in a situation, so a person should not make his future, his life, his wife's life, and his children's lives

and their stability depend on just a situation, for example, a phone call or also in.

In food, in drink, in a daily meal, or things like that, it is broader than that.

This includes housing, and also a man's relationship with his wife and children, and even his grandchildren and so on. Divorce might affect different generations; it might not affect the children, but it could affect the grandchildren.

It might affect relatives, so a person should give these matters their due importance.

Another important issue here is that a person might frequently swear an oath by divorce.

He does this often, saying: "By divorce, I will do such and such," whether it's in hospitality, forcing an opponent, honoring someone, or even to threaten or intimidate his wife or others.

Divorce is not a weapon a man raises against his wife to scare her; rather, it is a ruling from Allah the Exalted that should be put in its proper place.

As for what relates to this issue, regarding the case of this specific questioner, we say if he intended to.

to intimidate his wife, for example, or to scare her in such a situation, and he did not intend divorce, then it is an oath.

And he must offer expiation for breaking an oath, he expiates for breaking an oath in that case, and nothing else is required of him, even if.

even if, for example, she turned off the phone or stayed away from him or something similar. And likewise, if he truly intended divorce, if he said, for example, "I swear by divorce," and he was aware that he would divorce.

In that case, we say this ruling is the ruling of divorce, so whenever she does it, divorce takes place, at any time and in any place. Aisha from Tunisia.